Mental Health|12 September 2021

How to talk to kids about mental health : the do’s

If you notice a change in your child’s behaviour or that they seem to be struggling, there are many ways you can offer support. Here are some ways you can do that.

Offer support

Let your child know that you’re there
for them. Allow them to express themselves without fear of repercussions.

Validate their feelings

Tell them that it’s normal to feel sad, angry, scared, and stressed, and that you feel that way too sometimes. Empathise with them by saying things like, “That sounds really difficult”.

Express your intentions

Tell your child that you have noticed them feeling sad or acting differently, and let them know that you are
there to help.

Start the
conversation early

Give your child opportunities to open
up to you by creating space for healthy discussions from a young age. Start by asking open-ended questions like, “Did you talk to your friends today?”.

Model conversations about mental health

Encourage your child to talk about their feelings, by sharing yours. Do not share age-inappropriate information with them, but share that you—for example—do yoga because it keeps you mentally fit.

Seek help

If you are struggling to connect with your child, reach out to a mental health professional. Sometimes children feel more comfortable speaking to external parties. Your family doctor can refer you to a mental health professional.